Relational Antagonism

Relational antagonism is a pattern of relating to others characterized by competition, exploitation, entitlement, and a lack of concern for others’ needs or wellbeing. Rather than viewing relationships as reciprocal partnerships, narcissists high in relational antagonism tend to see social interactions in terms of status, advantage, and personal gain. They may manipulate, devalue, humiliate, or exploit others to protect self-esteem, maintain control, or secure desired resources. Relational antagonism is considered a core interpersonal feature of narcissism and contributes to chronic conflict, mistrust, and unstable relationships. In contrast to triangulation, which involves manipulating relationships by drawing a third person into a conflict or alliance, relational antagonism refers to the broader competitive and exploitative attitude that shapes how a person approaches relationships in general. Triangulation is one tactic through which relational antagonism may be expressed.